ok..so...

sittin here in my tweetie pj's and im checkin out the convos on twitter...i come across a female i know (she will remain un-named). i notice her new pics that r up...she's in her bra. now don't misunderstand me. i am very aware that she is not the only female on planet earth that takes pics in underwear. so i got to thinking: what is the purpose of taking pics in ur underwear for the world to see? is it a matter of self esteem, or is it just attention seeking? i am not talking bad about this female in any way...she's a sweetheart. i'm just curious to know why so many females feel the need to justify their sex appeal by taking pics half naked? this doesn't bother me as much as other issues, but its interesting to see the type of feedback they receive from their pics. of course its your token "you're hot" compliment from a random guy, but is that all the pictures purpose serve? oh well...eventually someone will notice that showing or giving everyone the goods depreciates your worth to your husband. Your goodies will no longer be "special", they won't be exclusive to him. Some guys don't care about all that, but deep down they don't feel as if your a prize because everyone has won you without the effort...hmm...maybe its just me that thinks this way. i'll admit, i'm a lil old fashioned...ok alot. but i'm still a 80's baby living in the year 2009, so i can't possibly be too old fashioned i guess. anyways thats off track, my point is females should keep their clothes on to really be noticed. think about it: most girls show sum kinda skin (including myself) but not enough cover up and leave something to the imagination. stand out for once. thats directed to me as well...i've had to check myself in the mirror a few times for excessive cleavage. yes, if u got it, flaunt it, but still be aware that less is more... -Love, Lala